Pain and bleeding during the first time
When having sex for the first time will the vagina stretch after that or is there something wrong about the vagina.People use to say that when having sex for the first time we have to bleed and will have sign of pain during intercouse.But when had sex for the first time did not have any bleeding or pain.Could it be there is something wrong?
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The vagina is a collapsible tube that will stretch to accommodate nearly anything - a finger, penis, and, eventually, a baby. When sexually aroused, the vagina becomes lubricated to allow for easier penetration without pain or discomfort. The more lubrication, the easier the insertion.
A common misconception is that the first time a woman has sex she will feel pain and bleeding will be noticeable. Each woman is different. The shape of the genitals is different and the hymen may be different. The hymen is considered connective tissue whose function is unknown. It may be ruptured (torn) during sex, insertion of a tampon, or vigorous exercise. Bleeding may or may not occur when the membrane is ruptured.
Will the first sexual encounter be painful and will you bleed? Not necessarily! Perhaps it is best summed up by a paragraph from the book, "Exploring the Dimensions of Human Sexuality" by Greenberg, Bruess, and Haffner. They state,
"The rupturing of the hymen during first intercourse generally does not result in a great deal of pain and bleeding, although some people expect it to do so. Pain is usually related to muscular tension due to anxiety or entry of the penis into the vagina before the vagina is sufficiently lubricated; care and attention can ordinarily prevent it. A few drops of blood may be noticeable."
Blood that may be shed during initial penetration may be diluted with other fluids (semen, vaginal lubrication, etc.) that it may not be seen.
To answer your questions, no, nothing is wrong.