The following is a playlist for determining basic kink likes, dislikes, and compatibility. It is not meant to be an all-inclusive list. However, it can be useful in focusing discussions of play with particular emphasis on the likes and dislikes of each partner. It gives an understanding of the preferences that each partner has. When coupled with the medical questionnaire (see In the Beginning section), each person will know each other better and will best tailor play accordingly.
The preferences below are organized by some sort of vague categories. As with most everything, might be categorized differently be other people. However, organizing activities in some way allows the Dom(me)/Top to get some idea of the bottom/sub's interests.
Below are some brief instructions on completing this playlist.

Indicate for each item whether you have actual experience with that activity (Done - Yes or No). Then, for each item, indicate how you FEEL about that activity by checking the box for Hot to OK to NO.

The scores are as follows.

Hot (H) means that it is a turn-on and you want to do this

OK (O) means that it's pleasurable or fun or will do it to please your partner.

NO (N) means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances. This may be a hard limit.

Unless otherwise specified, it is assume that the activity WILL BE DONE *TO* YOU. The Dom(me) or Top can use this form to indicate preference, too, although the orientation will change to WILL BE DONE *BY* THE DOM(ME) or TOP.

Once you have completed the Playlist, print it and give it to your partner.